WE ALL DESERVE THE VERY BEST ALWAYS, IN ALL WAYS.
We all deserve the very best in all ways, always. We all deserve to be treated with great respect, consideration and love. That’s simply how it has to be AND if you find yourself in a life situation that doesn’t give you that, than either correct it or leave it. We are birthing New Earth through us, don’t settle, don’t accept anything less!!
Here is my response to a question about being able to be present & in his Observer Self all day & then, getting triggered when he gets home to his wife:
Relationships are meant to assist us in relating with ourselves at a deeper level.
When we are triggered
When we are triggered, we have the opportunity to go within and look at what it is within us that is being triggered – an old wound that has not been healed, an old programming that is repeatedly co-creating a certain situation or experience with the person/s, a realisation that needs to dawn upon us so that we can shift within ourselves or/and create shifts in our lives. Be it parting with the person, having a deeper relationship with the person or loving ourselves and possibly the other more, awakening or ascending even higher vibrationally.
It’s okay to still react (especially if you feel things passionately or have a strong stand about absolute integrity and what you greatly value), it’s not only okay but important to draw healthy boundaries as well, it’s vital to love and honour ourselves hugely (the more we can do this, the more we can love and honour others), it’s therefore crucial to say NO in a big way, sometimes or even repeatedly, in the process and practice of saying YES to ourselves.
Post reacting
Post reacting, we can contemplate what triggered us, rise up and either leave the situation or initiate and create changes in the situation, always drawing healthy boundaries when necessary. It’s important to not allow others to disrespect us in any way and, vice versa, of course. Or to let them get away with being lesser than they are capable of being.
Sometimes, we do have to educate the people we regularly interact with, NOT in an arrogant way, but to teach people how we would like to be treated. Tough love is as much love as soft love is. I don’t know if this is relevant in your situation but it is generally relevant for us to love and honour ourselves, and as I wrote earlier, the more we can do this, the more we can love and honour others well.
Otherwise, we are simply compromising ourselves all the time and dishonouring the great Soul and Spirit that we are, and the emotions that arise from all that will grow rather than dissolve.
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Love to you, love to all.
Peace & Plenty for all.
Joy & Freedom too.
Helen Lee