Beautiful photograph by Sebastian PureLove, used here with great appreciation.
When people do not treat you with love and respect, thank them! At least, from within yourselves.
Firstly, the way they act towards you and what they say to you is a reflection of where they are at, and their own pain or wounds they themselves need to heal.
Also, it gets you to look at how YOU are treating and speaking with yourself. Are you doing so with love and respect, or are you being judgmental and harsh with yourself, constantly expecting yourself to measure up, instead of unconditionally embracing yourself exactly as you are, exactly as God or the Divine intended you to be right now.
Judging the Divine, no less
When we judge ourselves or others, we are judging the Divine, no less – because EVERYTHING is being orchestrated by the Divine, in every moment. This is why accepting everything as it is occurring is the highest form of spirituality.
NOT in a submissive way, where you do not step up to your own Greatness and make changes within yourself and in your life, but you do so, NOT from fixing what’s wrong and lacking, but from the Great Love within you, that says “Rise up and be the True Greatness that you already are!”
People who deserve to spend time with you
AND when you do so, you would spontaneously only include people who deserve to spend time with you and you with them, rather than defensively or with fear, push people away from your life. You may have to begin with that, so that your inner child knows you are taking care of him or her, and totally loving and honouring the most important person in your life.
Then, you can move on to being utterly relaxed and in your power, your greatest loving power, where there is no question whatsoever that you would totally look after yourself with tenderness and the deepest caring, never ever compromising yourself in any way whatsoever. And with so much to offer to those who love and honour you, letting the others slide away, without judging them for they have played their part and taught you well that you deserve way better.
With Great Love,
Helen Lee
EMBRACE GREATNESS NOW!
True Greatness is the Invincible Love that resides within all of us. We are meant to be GREAT. It is not a false grandiosity borne of the human mind and ego but a Vastness towards which we are journeying Home, where we can finally see the “elephant in its entirety” and adore the Play, in which we have various roles to star in, loving and embracing each role, and adoring being all three. WHAT A RIOT & A JOY!